Her sister is the one who is transitioning to male....

"I don't understand how anyone can hate themselves so much that they have to do that."

Makes you think...

On the plus side, it came out that everyone is now aware of what's happening. When Eli showed up with a beard & a girlfriend for Christmas, that kinda let the cat out of the bag I guess. My brother & his wife aren't happy about it (to put it mildly) but "they're family"...