We first met in a public place. A family style restaurant. After that, he came to visit me and I went to visit him. We went out on dates and had a wonderful time whenever we were together. We didn't want to leave each other. We were planning to get married the next year. I know he was not married or involved with anyone else as I had been to his home.
I still am not sure what happened and why his mood and attitude changed so quickly. He was always so sweet and caring with me. Then he suddenly started acting cold and uncaring for no reason. I asked him what was wrong and why he was treating me the way he was. (This was not the man I had fallen in love with)
All he said was he wanted to slow our relationship down which was ok with me as what we had was worth taking our time. After that he became more and more bitter. He turned into someone I didn't even know.
I did some research about his drastic mood changes and found out that he was/is probably bi-polar. I wanted to help him. I offered to take him to a doctor and even offered to help him with the co-pay for the doctor.
I felt with the right medication, he would eventually get back being the wonderful man I knew and loved. He refused any help from me and continued to be mean and bitter toward me. Our relationship eventually dropped off to nothing.😢
It was heartbreaking as I know he really loved me. I honestly feel he could not help or control what happened to him. He will always have a place in my heart...
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