Probably more times than I care to remember. I was married 3 times. Only one of the marriages turned out good for almost 8 years, then I found out he had cheated on me while in the Navy and overseas. I stayed with him for another year but could not get past him cheating on me. I did not cheat on him while he was gone. The time wasn't any longer for him than it was for me and I stayed true to my marriage vows. I forgave him but I could not forget. So the marriage ended. I won't be with a lying cheater.