My last serious boyfriend who I thought was going to be my husband. We had planned to be married the next year. We had a wonderful relationship from the day we met. It was like we had know each other forever.

He treated me better than any of the men I have been involved with including my husbands. He was always so sweet and loving to me.

Then one night he turned into someone I didn't even know. He was very mean and said cruel things to me and told me we needed to not talk about getting married. I was very confused as he was not acting at all like the man I had fallen in love with...

He was the one who asked me to marry him and talked about how he couldn't wait until we were married and had our own home and he could walk in the door and say "Honey I'm home!" To go from that to being stone cold to me made no sense to me. I don't know what happened to him.

I would ask him to be totally honest and tell me what really happen and why he changed so drastically and decided he didn't love me anymore.

I did a lot of behavior research and I honestly think he may have been/is bipolar. From what I read, a person with that ailment can have drastic mood changes and become very irritable and act like a totally different person.

This was back in 2011. It took a long time and I still have that one big question, but I cannot let what happened destroy my life. I spent too much time crying and being miserable after our break up. It took a long time, but I finally realized that he was not meant for me even though I still loved him.

A part of me will always love the wonderful, kind and loving side of him. Life goes on and I know my TRUE Soulmate is out there and will find me when the time is right.