“I willing step up to the plate & be a step dad to her kids(yes she has 2 a daughter & son).”
You don’t gave a job or a car and you still live at home. You cankt be someone’s father when you can’t even take care of or provide for yourself.
“She is kinda shutting me out. So what can I do? “
Nothing. She doesn’t want to be with you and you need to accept that.
“I am desent guy,& big deal I don't have a car,big deal I don't have a desent job,& big deal I don't have my own place & still live at home. That don't mean I a bad guy & all that should matter it matters in the heart if you truely love someone not cause they don't got certin things.”
These things do matter. She already has two kids. She doesn’t want another one to take care of.
“So what can I do ... I hate being lonely. Please helo”
Work on yourself. Eat less. Start working out and get in shape. Physical attractiveness matters. Find a good job and work hard at it. Buy a car. Move out of your dad’s house. Step up and be a man instead of a 30 something year old child. No woman wants a guy who doesn’t have a job, a car, or a place of his own.