By the way, phrases like:
"I do not give a rats ass what the other players feel they have a right to do or not or not to do"
and
"all you are doing is trying to justify players rights to refuse "
and
"I feel I have the right to come in to your house and paint your walls red and green with poka dots does that actually mean I have the right to do so just cause I feel I have that right."
All these things, clearly said by you, indicate to me that you do not care in the slightest about how other people feel or if they're allowed to decide their own course of action. You feel you have the right to make other people's choices for them because you alone believe you know the right thing. You want to mandate that the actions of other people follow only your beliefs.
The house bit is especially telling since it shows us that you have no respect for the idea that people are free to make their own choices, including who they interact with or what they consider their private or personal spaces. You don't have an inherent right to trespass and vandalize, yet you think you do; it implies both that you believe only have the freedom to choose what happens, and that the only thing stopping you from doing such acts is the threat of punishment.
You're telling us don't care about other people as human beings with their own interests or motivations or lives. You only care that people follow your desired outcome: a roleplay scene with you. For all that you claim about other roleplayers using people for sexual gratification, you're also using people in the same way, because you don't care about what they are allowed to do as independent people who are not obligated to listen to or obey you.
Then again, you're still saying that:
"People like myself just begging to role play and just being shot down for the most stupidest of reasons that just simply do not make any sense"
...Right there. There it is, laid out in the open, by you. You're not asking people to play, you're begging them. They don't have a obligation to answer to begging any more than they do asking. Just because you ask very hard doesn't mean that they somehow must say yes to you. Their reasons might be shallow, but they have the right to say no, the same way you have a right to say no to the invitation to a hotel room from strangers in hats. You could say you don't trust them, or that you just don't like people in hats. If you can say no to an invitation, other people can say no as well.
All these things you're showing us in your own words and opinions in these posts...The lack of empathy. The attempts at manipulation of others. The constant need for stimulation. The high sense of self worth compared to the value placed on other people. The limited ability to understand the feelings of other people.
Those are various basic indicators of sociopathy, Methen. As a former mental health counselor's aide, I try not to encourage sociopathic behavior as I have seen the damage to families caused by sociopaths. As such I'll stop replying to this and future threads by you; you've shown us what you really think of other people very, very clearly. No matter the number of points I can present, it seems like the idea of me advocating the treatment other people as human beings with the freedom to make their own choices in their lives only seems to anger you further.
Please consider looking for help from a registered mental health professional, Methen. I honestly think you might really, genuinely be dealing with a sickness rather than just selfishness.
~Annie
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