Our message Sunday night at Parkview Christian Church in Orland Park, IL reviewed that failure in marriage often occurs due to failure to meet each others emotional needs. If God's leading us in marriage, we'll submit to one another in reverence to Christ; we submit to God and then to our spouse. Also, the suicidal Jewish teaching of 'turn the other cheek' (which white nationalists must shun) doesn't mean we should let someone abuse us.

"And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit;" Ephesians 5:18, KJV

"Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.
Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:
Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God:
But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men:
And being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross." Philippians 2:4-8, KJV