Posted by mike on 5/7/2004, 4:49 am, in reply to "HAVING TROUBLE DEALING WITH LOVER'S PAST" I understand what you mean. I have similar mixed emotions. It's not easy to come to terms with... I personally don't mind about previous long term relationships, but short-term relationships really bug me because I feel like she lowered herself... However, I accept that I am a hypocrypt because I've had enough of those myself. I guess it annoys me that someone did to the girl I love (and want to share my life with) what I did to many other girls (who I just didn't care about...). The important thing is she is with you now, meaning she knows the difference between what she had and what she has... I'm sure that she believes that you are special and much more than what she had... I beleive that love is also emotional/spirtual and not just pyhsical, so when you make love you will be touching her in ways that none of those other guys ever could... otherwise she'd still be with one of those guys. Never lose your self confidence and belief. See in yourself what she sees in you.
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Hi,
It's easy for others to say it's no big deal, but you value what you have with her and it hurts that someone else has been with her... and in a way that makes you feel that she has belittled what you have now by giving herself to those other guys....
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