Posted by Jake on 5/3/2006, 12:59 am
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I am dating this really great girl; and things have started to get serious between us. My problem is trying to figure out how to deal with her past. I know that the past is the past, but here's the deal. I am 23 years old and still a virgin. She on the other hand is 19; has been with 2 other guys that I know of and had even got pregnant by one of them but her parents made her go to the abortion clinic and have an abortion. Other then that; before we got together she was still showing signs of being interested in her boyfriend from just last summer. The main reason that they broke up seems to only be because he lives 2000 miles away and they didn't want to do a long-distance relastionship. She still talks to this guy just about every night online at the same time she is talking to me. I will admit that I have serious self-esteem issues and I know that she hasn't given me any reason to believe that she would lie to me; but I still have problems with her talking to this other guy whom she cared so much about (even heard a rumor that they were suppose to get married, but haven't been able to bring myself to ask her about it). He has also said that he loves her, but only as a friend, so I dont' know. I"m not sure what I should do to help me get past this, if anyone can offer advice, I would appreciate it. Thanks.
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