You can & will get through it all with faith and the support of these great women on here. I did a bilateral Mast 13+ years ago. after my surgery I WAS NOT prepared for what I saw. I was not flat chested I was concave! It was emotionally hard for me also. I had to go on an antidepressant & therapy to cope. but now I am just grateful to still be alive Barbie boobs and all!! chin up Denise, it does get better