The physical scars will fade and it wont be so much in your mind any more but you will never forget it. Its part of your life and you can always be grateful that it was caught in time and that it was removed and taken care of.
9 years ago, I used to stand before the mirror and tears would enter my eyes because of what happened to me. Now tears enter my eyes because it made me see that I am much stronger than I ever thought, that my faith was deepened more than I thought possible and that my family and friends were always there to sometimes just sit and hold my hand and pass their strength to me.
Its easy for me to say, it will get easier to deal with but right now, you need something. I encourage you to take advantage of any support groups offered to you locally, by your health insurance, local cancer society or komen organization - I found that support very beneficial.
And look for us here. Let us know what you need and we are here to supply it. I wish you well my new friend. Be strong.