Hi Carolyn....it's good to hear from you but so sorry you are having a rough time. I'm really sorry about your partner leaving. That just sucks. But on a happier note, how is your son Nathen doing? And didn't you have another baby not too long ago? Children have a way of keeping us moving and I hope you get to spend a lot of time with them.
How are you feeling now? Please please know that it is not your fault if cancer returns. And like Zoe said, fear is a great motivator to get us to the doctor.
Please post an update. Lots of love, Karen H.