When I read this sentence "we can't just put off chemo to suit your schedule. It isn't like this is the last time you can enjoy the family all together" I swear I wanted to come right down to NC and roll some heads!!! HOW DARE them be so flip! I am so sorry Zoe. I am speechless on how you were treated. I wish I lived closer. I would come over and pitch the bedpan at the sweet thing that told you that! I am also so very sorry that Kay has to celebrate the holiday without her love. Maybe we should get a task force of pink sisters together and come down there on your behalf! I am beyond words right now......just annoyed and ready to scream!
Sending prayers and positive thoughts your way......it will take a while for all this unnecessary meanness and lack of cooperation for your best interest to register.