The first few months are surely a blur. I think I stayed in denial. I stayed very, very busy to keep my mind off of what was happening.
I never got a wig. I live in South Louisiana, and had chemo during hot months, so I knew a wig was out of the question. I got cute little knit caps and tied a narrow scarf around it into a happy bow on the side. I wore cool long earrings, and got lots of compliments.
Here is where I got my caps, several in different colors and styles. I used the cotton/spandex turbans with the scarf.
Also, this website will send you a beautiful free scarf:
This one will provide house cleaning!!!
There are lots of groups that will help you on your journey.
HUGS. Hope this helped.