MaryJ, so glad you found this site, but sorry for your diagnosis. Do you have a treatment plan or surgery options? You will feel better after finding out what those options are. Take someone with you to appointments. It's had to remember everything you are told.
BC is a very curable disease. There is an enormous number of women who have been diagnosed at early and late stages of their life and have lived a normal life afterward.
HUGS, please come back and let us know how you're doing!