
Posted by JanV on September 22, 2009, 4:36 pm, in reply to "That's a list"
Tell that man he needs to learn to be responsible for his own happiness, then..
go to a movie
get a manicure
get a pedicure
get your hair done
go out to lunch with someone
read a book
get a little indoor fountain
play classical music
light a scented candle
have some tea
or whatever is your personal favorite.
Can't believe I left chocolate off the list.
Hope is right about counseling.
As a former Al-Anon member I had to focus on my needs and taking care of myself, and it wasn't easy, as I am a caretaker by nature. Wishing you the best! Jan
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