You know, you all have some good points...
Now don't get me wrong, I am content with my fetish.
Actually I accept my fate, I have to (I don't know anything else, ya know?) - and Richard, I totally hear you, how many of us can peruse the object of our sexual arousal right out and about in public like the good ole smoking fetishist???
LOL - but underneath of it all, I wish I had the --option-- of being turned on by the normal fare.
I can't though.
It just doesn't work for me.
Fortunately I love my wife so much that the sex is good regardless. She is attractive and fit too - but boy if she was a smoker now... man would it be good.
She is so not into smoking, a healthy type, she would totally be freaked.
Ah well, I suppose it could be much worse huh? At least I don't live in the wake of the hurricane in China.