
Posted by Smokefiend on May 14, 2008, 7:49 pm, in reply to "Re: A-B-C..."
"I would love to be able to have 'normal' sexual desires, yet due to the fact that my formative and successive sexual preferences have been based primarily upon smoking-eroticism, there is a snowballs chance in hell for that huh?" (A-B-C)
Why do you think there is something abnormal about a smoking fetish? One of the nice things about being human is the enormous variety of things that can turn us on......this varies from person to person as well as culture to culture, and I think it's glorious.
If I started worrying about what's normal and abnormal, I'd start wondering if there was something wrong with me becuase I don't get all worked up over a woman with enormous breasts, while obviously a lot of men do........my personal taste runs to a moderate sized breast in balance with a moderate figure. Indeed, I find a slender, flatchested woman more appealing than one with giant breasts.....no offense meant to well endowed women, just not my cup of tea.
But I don't think of myself as "abnormal" because of this anymore than I think of myself as abnormal because high heels aren't a turn-on for me, though they are for a lot of men.
If you had a fetish for seven year old children.......yeah, that would qualify as abnormal, but a smoking fetish? Heck, enjoy and don't worry about it.
Smokefiend
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