
Posted by rossfgh
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on April 29, 2008, 10:57 pm, in reply to "Re: Identity"
Hey Vesperae
As a health conscious, militant anti-smoker, being attracted to women who smoke, and then beginning to actually smoke myself, may have a possible sleeping with the enemy, if you can't beat them join them, submissive-mascohistic element to it. That may be what I find so erotic and explains what being a smoker means to me.
I'm not sure it has changed the way I see myself, but being a smoker sure feels good.
I don't have any interest in others knowing that I smoke. From reading this message board I realise that for many people, part of the attraction of smoking is the opportunity it gives to outrage non-smokers, but for me smoking is a deeply personal, sensual and erotic experience, one to be savoured in private only. I have no interest in others knowing I am a smoker, and certainly do not want my parents and family to know.
Love the new header btw, it may only be a cartoon but that is one very sexy lady. Slender and gorgeous and smoking a virginia slim, yummy. Did you draw her yourself?
all the best
Ross
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