Posted by Laura Anyway, I haven't really been obsessing or thinking too much about my ex in the past 3 mos. I've been ok with everything and have started smiling again. Well, in the past week, his memory just hit me all of a sudden and I started thinking about him again. I never had any dreams about him, even when we first broke up, but last week, I had my first dream. The day started with me thinking about him all of a sudden. Then that night while I was sleeping, I had the dream. In the dream we got in an extremely small argument (which is how it was with him in reality anyway) but he refused to talk to me or see me to resolve things. I just took that dream as how I was feeling deep down inside, because we never had full closure. Well, since the dream, I haven't been able to stop thinking about him...continually. I was better, what's wrong with me all of a sudden? I was being so strong. Well, last night I had another dream that he called or communicated with me somehow and wanted to see me and talk to me. I woke up and can't stop thinking about him. What's going on with me? I was letting go and fine with it...and then all of a sudden these dreams have thrown me back to the beginning of the heartache. Any opinions on what's happening?
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on 4/12/2004, 4:10 pm
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My boyfriend of 9 mos. and I broke up 6 months ago. He needed space and other stupid excuses... and I've left him totally alone. He's emailed a couple casual emails, but that's it in 6 mos. It's was torturous for me at first, but now in the past 3 mos. I've been moving on and have started dating again.
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