God knows how many people you've met in your life.
Ask the right questions, you'll end up hugging your soul mate.
Chances are; ask any string of questions you'll want to throttle those still standing for the disappointment they represent. Family included.
Try not not be too judgemental & see it from another angle.
If you've done that, you are allowed to absolutely #### everyone off.
Life's too short, just make sure you tried.