Hi Gina - I have read your posts with interest. I'm happy to contribute to a conversation but don't wish to take part in the treatment you are kindly offering. I have suffered from paruresis for many years and during that time have gradually worked out what works for me to enable me to live a largely normal life. I wouldn't go as far as to say I'm cured but I can handle paruresis now. The one thing which still has the potential to give me difficulty is when I get anxious and over-think. For that reason I don't want to do anything which might make me think too much about paruresis. I guess I don't feel broken enough to need fixing - I hope that helps you to understand my situation.