Sounds like you've been suffering for a wee while (excuse the pun). I do have a similar, less severe version of your problem. I cant pee for s**t in urinals MOST of the time and like you say, when its busy, its pretty fecking impossible although I can always go in the cubicle.
My honest opinion, I think a lot of the problem is not realizing just how many other people suffer from the same 'condition'. Whenever I have to wait for a cubicle I see others who are blatantly avoiding the urinals too which I find a little comfort in (seriously, look out for it!).
Most importantly of all, if you can, be as open as possible about it!! Me and my friends often have a giggle because I can't wee in front of people and being real friends, they accept me for who I am. I really can't think of a single reason it can pose a problem for others and if they think you're 'weird', that just shows a lack of understanding and possibly intelligence. I know this has been building up for a number of years now but being open could be the first step toward releasing a little pressure mentally. I know you'll get over this.
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