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Hey. Your story sounds so similar to mine except I'm older than you and I've found my problem getting slightly worse over the years so that now I will rarely go to a urinal even if nobody is around as if somone comes in I just freeze up. I think the feelings of inadequacy are quite common even if they have no real basis.