Re: Does Anyone Know?
Posted by Jason on July 2, 2012, 11:05 pm, in reply to "Does Anyone Know?"
: As I have come to learn over the last several
: years that I have a smoking fetish, I have
: done some research into what fetishes are
: all about. There are many different fetishes
: and smoking is not even one of the top
: fetishes out there even though there seem to
: be a lot of us who have this affliction.
: What I want to know is why the smoking
: fetish as well as most other fetishes are
: primarily a male thing. It is fairly rare to
: hear of a woman with a fetish unless she
: happens to be bi-sexual or prefers women to
: men altogether. It just seems that most of
: the fetishes out there are geared towards
: women by men and I am just curious as to why
: this might be true.
I think it's because men's and women's brains are wired differently. I once read an interesting theory that fetishes civilize men. They put their extra energy into their fetish instead of using it to be a violent brute.