Posted by Hope on February 28, 2009, 8:33 pm, in reply to "Re: Disconcerted grief"
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cuz you right......some folk jes don't get it, neva will. It's their path and we can't drag 'em off it. And yes, his arrogance did cost my sweet Hope her life but so did her bein raised like a lady. Someone else woulda spit that stuff right back on out and maybe only burned their mouth a bit. She was raised neva to be so rude and plus, the nurse was right there, she wouldn't have done it in front of her. And there was of course that feeling of security that having a medical person around gives some people so she probably didn't even think about it and if she did, she thought "well, what could go wrong? The nurse is right here."
He gone, anyway. And if she can fo'give him, who am I not to? It's jes.......ugh, I feel so robbed by him. And that's less about forgiveness and mo about anger at injustice, I think, after pondering it awhile. The cancer would've got her and I understand that, nothin ta forgive there. Cancer's a predator and serial killer, in a way. But this is somethin else entirely.
And heck, yeah, I woulda answered an email jes like that, sweepea! 
Some folks' behavior jes grates on me. Plus, you got a right ta say what you did and I get why that is. 
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