Posted by College Guy on December 4, 2003, 9:31 pm, in reply to "could i be???"
I seriously doubt that you are pregnant. For one thing, sperm has to travel quite a ways into the uterous to get to the egg and it cannot survive long outside of the body. Sure, stress can easily contribute to missing a period or two. I would certainly think that a friend's suicide would contribute to that. I think that if it is bothering you to the point where it is causing changes in your body's function, you might want to seek counseling. You shouldn't have to face that grief alone. It takes time. I would also avoid trying to deal with your stress by having any kind of sex. That is a very unhealthy way of coping with it. It can lead to other things and you will only make things harder on yourself. I know a lot of guys who would LOVE to take advantage of a woman in your situation. He can pretend to be your friend just so they can get down your pants. Don't let that happen to you. Do you have any other close friends around who you can talk to? It always helps to talk about it with people you know and trust. So, in conclusion, a true friend will love you and help you cope with your problems. I don't know any friends of mine who would help somebody cope with pain by having sex with somebody who is grieving (even if it is "dry" sex because it can lead to other things and it certainly won't help you deal with your feelings).
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