Posted by Just Me on March 29, 2004, 9:39 am, in reply to "typical relationship problems" --Previous Message--
I can see where you are coming from, but you stuck to your morals and values, and that is very admirable. There is not always "only one thing on guys' minds" but with a teenage boy, that is more than likely what it was. However, if he really loved you, he would have stuck with you, and would have understood your high morals and values. I think you did the right thing, and waited.
If you have anymore questions, or doubt your choices, I check this board almost always once a day.
JM
: Ok, there's this guy that I went out with for a
: really long time. He was everything I ever
: wanted in a guy.
: I'm a "virgin mary", as my friends
: have called it. I had never kissed anyone
: before him and even then I only gave him the
: small kisses. Nothing big and extravagant
: (no open mouth). He said he was fine with it
: and that he'd wait. But I could tell he
: really wanted to go further. I wanted to
: make him happy but I just couldn't bring
: myself to do it.
: That's why they call me the virgin mary. I'm
: not even religious!
: Anyways, he broke up with me and it really
: hurt cuz I loved him a lot. I know people my
: age "don't know what love is" but
: this was about as close as someone my age can
: come.
: There were all kinds rumors going around
: about why he did it. Not big public ones
: like what you see on TV, but rrumors between
: friends and whatnot. He broke up to go out
: with my friend (like they always do), he
: wanted to go further, he used me then got
: sick of me... blah blah.
: Quite frankly, after thinking it over for a
: while, I figured he was just trying to get in
: my pants. I know that's the "only thing
: on teenage boys' minds" and all...but it
: just. I dunno. I keep thinking that he
: really did love me but he just needed more
: and maybe I should of gone further?
:
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