Posted by Simon I like Women and when I find one I really like(love?), I end up letting them walk all over me. As a result, the challenge is gone, and the one I think is the one I'll marry, walks out of my life. Been learning about Challenge, its very important to keep the spark alive, and/or attracting women in the first place. Players are masters at this... a top guy will setup a positive obsession you will both enjoy. Players unfortunately usually setup negative obsessions so that you will dump him and he can move on. Emotionally unavailable and he wasn't worth your time. Wish you the best finding a guy that is...bet theres plenty out there. --Previous Message--
on 6/6/2005, 3:43 pm, in reply to "Re: went after a player"
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Challenge. He setup a challenge.
: I have that problem too. I give my
: body too easily and then try to
: place some high expectations on the
: guy. The last guy didn't ever call
: me , but i didn't call him either. I
: guess all good things come to those
: who wait. So, next time i'll try,
: but...
: Anyways, just don't ever contact
: that guy again and raise your
: expectations and let them be known
: to the guy who you will have sex
: with next time.
:
: --Previous Message--
: i met this guy, late 30's, very
: handsome, everything i knew i should
: stay away from. He told me right
: away he was a player willing to
: change all that if met right on, if
: i wanted sex or be friends that was
: kool. i almost fell to ground. i
: told him looking for stable man etc.
: That was it. 2 weeks go by, felt
: rejected that he didn't try to at
: least go after me for sex.Why should
: he, a player doesn't need too waste
: time. So i decided to play him, and
: just make him think he was going to
: get sex. But after getting to know
: him more online only, i wanted too.
: He said he either comes back once in
: a while, never leaves, or never
: comes back. So had sex with him, he
: said if i wanted that we could
: continue to keep hang out. I said
: yes. But after 3rd time seeing him,
: in my delusional mind, i started to
: get jealous? or maybe i wanted him
: to choose me to change, lol. So i
: sent him an email saying i was
: finished playin with him, want more
: than just whenever good for him sex,
: and said good luck finding that
: spark. I know a player could care
: less, we both had fun. But thought
: about it and why should he be able
: to think i avaiable too him
: whenever. even though i knew from
: start thats all it was.I just don't
: know why i even bothered this guy.
: anyway, just needed to tell this
: story.
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