Posted by Jen I reacted with panic, on one level, which I've hung out with only enough to know that it's connected to a need (perceived need, whatever) for approval. I also reacted with blame - of the other person and myself. It's a deep and stifling response. It feels like it's served and continues to serve repression. I did my first session with these feelings this morning and for the most part totally numbed out. Any experiences with dropping blame when it's very very tight? Other thoughts? Thanks, Jen
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on 9/24/2004, 5:29 am
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I finally made the active attempt to begin to process some very heavy, stuck, emotions that have come up over the past few years in romantic interactions where I was confronted, with directness, exasperation, confrontationalism, and combinations thereof, on what partners at the time thought were my blind spots and how those blind spots negatively affected them.
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