Posted by Michael Harris
on 4/7/2008, 7:01 am, in reply to "Jelousy / insecurity"
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It might help to process your feelings. You can work with a facilitator - look one up near you, or anyone you feel comfortable working with even over the phone - it doesn't matter where they are located if you use the phone. I'm certified and am in Connecticut. Good luck.
--Previous Message--
: Hello, I almost finished reading the
: book. For me it's an absolutely new
: approach since I tried to treat my
: lack of selfesteem with kognitive
: therapy and fought against my
: feelings and thoughts. I would like
: to go on and try this new approach
: which for me seems very hopeful.
: Right now I feel very sad and
: desperated. Im getting married in a
: couple months and I have a very
: loving partner. But Im very jelous,
: not in the way that I think he would
: be unfaithful, but that he finds
: somebody more beautiful and sexy
: than me. (I know it sounds childish
: and selfish). So I expect from him
: that he doesnt look after other
: woman and either doesn't make
: comments about their look. I feel
: like I can never relax because Im
: always afraid that I look to him and
: I can see that he looks to a very
: beautiful girl or his friends are
: telling him about one so he has to
: look. And then Im blaming him and
: seek for secure words from his side.
: Does anyone else have this problem.
: I feel quite alone and so ashamed of
: it. In a rational way I shouldn't
: even worry about it because I think
: I'm not bad looking and my partner
: gives me many compliments. Its also
: strange because I only get jelous if
: its about beauty or sexyness.....
: Sorry for those long lines, I just
: felt I had to write it down....
:
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