Posted by Raupe
on 4/1/2008, 6:35 am
79.11.43.102
Hello, I almost finished reading the book. For me it's an absolutely new approach since I tried to treat my lack of selfesteem with kognitive therapy and fought against my feelings and thoughts. I would like to go on and try this new approach which for me seems very hopeful. Right now I feel very sad and desperated. Im getting married in a couple months and I have a very loving partner. But Im very jelous, not in the way that I think he would be unfaithful, but that he finds somebody more beautiful and sexy than me. (I know it sounds childish and selfish). So I expect from him that he doesnt look after other woman and either doesn't make comments about their look. I feel like I can never relax because Im always afraid that I look to him and I can see that he looks to a very beautiful girl or his friends are telling him about one so he has to look. And then Im blaming him and seek for secure words from his side. Does anyone else have this problem. I feel quite alone and so ashamed of it. In a rational way I shouldn't even worry about it because I think I'm not bad looking and my partner gives me many compliments. Its also strange because I only get jelous if its about beauty or sexyness.....
Sorry for those long lines, I just felt I had to write it down....
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