Posted by Mike on 6/5/2007, 12:47 pm, in reply to "Core level healing" --Previous Message--
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Hi Steve, I read your message and want to offer encouragement. We have a lot of fear that is buried and difficult to perceive unless you work at it or with the help of someone. That may be part of your 'stuckness'. You write 'it is hard to know which way to go', the answer (I'm not trying to sound trite) is of course forward. But it is often comfortable to stay where we are, with what we know. A great deal of inertia is established through our experiences. If we have experienced loss or pain, we may tend to protect our selves from possible loss by keeping out all experiences (i.e., not acting). I wish you well. You have been working on yourself, keep it up - it is all about the journey. Consider detaching from the results and see if a fascination develops with the what-is. We have been given strong pattens in life. I see these as our tools - paints and brushes from which we create this exquisite master piece of our life. I know this might seem strange, but it is all quite beautiful from a spiritual point of view. Don't be to hard on yourself, know that simply raising awareness is having a significant, positive effect. Welcoming feelings will reveal much, and then much of the rest will take care of itself.
: I need help...it's a long story but
: here it is in a nut shell...I'm 49
: and I've been working on myself for
: a few years now but after all is
: said and done I feel like I have
: achieved little. Its one thing too
: know about the power of positive
: thought and the law of attraction
: but quite another to express it and
: manifest it positively. I see myself
: as the main problem….deep down
: inside me I must feel undeserving of
: myself. As the days go by I feel
: like the mud gets thicker and harder
: to climb out of. But yet I keep a
: sense of hope that I can get out of
: the mess I’m in. However I’m at a
: lost as to which way to go. I
: collect a lot of self help research
: but I don’t use a lot of it. I buy
: some CDs on how to be more positive
: etc but I don’t use them. Why I am
: I so stuck the wake up calls area
: all around me. My wife cheats on me
: and treats me like crap but I’ll
: still with her I still have feelings
: for her that are strong. However I
: have plans to move out I just don’t
: l know where yet. I’m a pay check
: away from the streets. I was
: arrested last Oct. for having a
: controlled substance and the list
: goes on.
: What is it that keeps me down? I
: know what I need to do but I keep
: getting slapped down, why? Are we
: that programmed to be down? What
: does it take to clear the old belief
: systems and self-defeating behavior
: patterns? Dan Millan said you can
: read all the self help books and go
: to all the workshops in the world
: but if a part of you feels that you
: do not deserve such abundance then
: you won’t get it. OK so then the
: task is finding what works for you
: in clearing these nasty things on a
: core level. I wish I had a reset
: button like my computer…..
:
: Cheers
:
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