My suggestion is how I not only got my woman to try them but also got her to smoke them sometimes during sex.....at first when I went away with her on vacation ...it was night time and went out on to the balcony of our hotel in which at that time I proceeded to pull out a cigar and started to light it up...naturally women want to accompany their man so she sat next to me while I was doing so...even though deep inside I wish that she was smoking I never gave her any indication that this is a fetish of mine.....after I lit it I just kicked back and started savoring the cigar (saying things like "nothing beats this right know" or "this is sooo relaxing") to which at this time she sees you enjoying it so much that she becomes curious to the point of wanting to try it...then you kind of play of dumb by saying "all right, I have another that's kind of mild that you might be agle to smoke" to which I proceed to get for her and coach her through the procces.... then when she starts smoking it I play it cool like " not bad, you actually look like you know how to smoke it " at that point they start feeling confident about...that's when I ask her to try smoking it different in ways( ask her to try smoking it in ways that you find erotic, like myself I asked her to dangle which she proceeded to do)...once they do this for a little bit, then you hit them with "wow...believe it or not you actually look sexy smoking the cigar..I'm actully getting turned on !!"......That's when you got her, anyone women who really likes a man will do anything to turn him on..
I'm not going to guarantee that this will happen...but through my experiences, I have gotten over a dozen women to try cigars and 4 of them to actually smoke them during sex !!!
Good luck my friend...