Posted by Julia Oldham Harris --Previous Message--
on 10/14/2007, 1:04 am, in reply to "Re: What to do with heirlooms"
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I am also the genealogist of my family.I began collecting heirlooms from the family.I plan to turn my garage into a family archives room.I do this for my 12yr grandson who ask me a year ago what did I know about our family history. That day I could tell hin nothing,now I can tell him the story of history in America. I plan to leave all archives and genealogy to him. Because once a week he calls to find if I have any new info,and it has brought us closer togather
: I am also the genealogist of my family
: and I could share my horror stories of
: lost photo's and heirlooms. I'll just
: say I know how heartbreaking these
: situations are and that has led to a
: bit of a problem. I search ebay,
: antique stores and thrift shops
: regularly for my lost family heirlooms.
: I would happily purchase them to keep
: them with their history, even if I give
: them away to relatives who care at the
: moment. I can't resist buying things
: that are identified by family, like
: engraved silver or china with a note
: describing the owner. I have begun
: ebaying these things in hopes of
: reuniting them with the people who
: should have them. I found Deadfred.com
: to be helpful on a few things. I have
: donated to state archives when
: appropriate. I don't care about
: possessing these things, but I do care
: about the stories they help tell. I
: would love to have a way of being sure
: these things are kept with their
: history, suggestions appreciated.
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: I wish I had a relation such as you,
: Kat.
: My problem is that I am the last of my
: line. My aunts & uncles had no
: children, so it all traces back to
: greeat-grandparents, great-aunts &
: great-uncles, whose births ranged from
: 1856-1911. I am pushing 60, so the
: cousins of whom I speak are cousins
: many times removed. Those cousins of my
: own generation passed away before I was
: born. They are people whom don't really
: know. Our common ancestors are my
: great-grandparents, their
: gt-gt-gt-grandparents, who were born in
: the 1830s. They are widely scattered
: across the country. There are no family
: reunions. Many of my items do not even
: pertain to their direct ancestors, but
: to people who would have been their own
: parents' cousins.
:
: I guess I'm wondering... does my duty
: lie with keeping an item with its
: history, its provenance... or does my
: duty lie simply with seeing that the
: item somehow remains within that
: bloodline, even if those potential
: heirs know nothing & care little
: about the history or their ancestors?
:
: I am leary of cousins whose first
: question about an item is not "To
: whom did it belong?" but "Is
: it worth anything?"
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