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Posted by Butcho
on 7/22/2009, 8:05 pm, in reply to "Re: for Butch, re: "how to be happpy""
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: josef,
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: Speaking of simple pleasures. My 3 year old
: granddaughter literally Beams with delight
: when I tell her that she has pretty eyes.
: That she has pretty eyebrows. A pretty nose.
: Pretty lips. Pretty cheeks. Pretty elbows...
: she just beams with joy and a grin and a
: twinkle in her eyes. And giggles.
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: And I get quite a lot of pleasure out of her
: pleasure as well. So much so that at times I
: am not quite sure where she begins and I
: end. My love for her is unconditional,
: simple. Unforced. Natural.
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: Butcho
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: Be sure to tell her you love her
: intelligence, her spirit, her sense of
: humor, her kindness and her talents, too,
: Butcho. The beauty-queen mentality, thriving
: on being "pretty", is too small
: for real girls, cheats them. The best advice
: I ever heard for parents and grandparents
: was to promote character, not ego. You'll
: understand this.
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: I love how you love her. I have 3 grandsons
: & 1 granddaughter who gave me a
: great-grand-daughter a year ago. Children
: are love-teachers, no doubt! They teach love
: as so effortlessly. Little sages. :-)
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josef,
Excellent point you make about attributes other than just the physical ones. I will take your advice to heart. I have been telling her for some time now that she is very smart but will extend this to other areas you mention as well.
Butcho
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