Posted by Karen on 8/5/2006, 8:50 pm, in reply to "Emotions"
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Dear Gina, I'm having the exact same feelings as you this week. My divorce was final a year ago and I too didn't want it. My X thinks he has now met another one of his "soulmates" and may marry this one by end of this month. I can't believe I'm taking it sooo hard. I feel I too may have been putting on a facade of being OK because right now I don't know why I can't let go of "my husband". The feelings don't end once the ink dries on the divorce decree - it's just a piece of paper. I just want answers as to why he started this whole mess and I know I will probably never get them. This is just so senseless. How can they be so unreasonable and cold? I feel so used.