Posted by Lorrie on 7/24/2006, 10:18 am, in reply to "Re: What do you say?"
70.77.92.94

Thanks Mike, I remember you mentioned this happened to you before. I believe I will have to try not communicate at all will him, tell myself that it is impossible and tell myself it's like he's dead. He is useless to me and useless to the boy's, all he has done is hurt and frustrate them. I guess I/we are just learning how low he will go, they are hearing so many lies and starting to realize that they are lies. It's feels impossible when they are hurting so much to not jump in and defend their feelings, call him on his lies and bullshit. I know he will never admit his actions, I know that he will always blame me, I know he and his partner feed off my anger. I know that this will happen over and over again to my youngest son, that he will try and be heartbroken. When he hurts, I react, and that will be the tough part, not giving the ex and girlfriend the fuel for the fire. I would protect them from physical abuse, charge the person who hurt them, the emotional abuse is harder for me to handle,I just want him to realize the pain he has done to them, I know that will never happen. Thanks, Lorrie