Posted by catherine on 6/13/2006, 5:49 pm, in reply to "Re: Back to Basics..."
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Kathy, I have not posted here in a while--was devalued and tossed out 2 years ago after 29 years of marriage. My father died recently and I needed to come back here as I lost two important men in two years. Anyway, your story tugs at my heartstrings. After going through all this, I just hate to see someone else have to experience it. I am glad your day today was better. Tomorrow--who knows. One of the most important things I have discovered during the MLC crisis. Honor your feelings. Later on, you will hear that others had those exact feelings so you can't be all wrong! Don't let anyone else tell you how you should be feeling--especially the MLCer. However you feel, is how you feel. Honor those feelings. In time, it does get better. Lawyers, divorces, paperwork, OW, it is a rough ride. Very rough--but it does come to an end eventually. Thanks for expressing your feelings. You are one of the ones who has made me realize my feelings were normal for what was happening to me. Thinking of you. Catherine