Posted by Via: Tom on 6/8/2006, 10:37 pm
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Hi all, About three years ago we had a group on this board that spent quite a bit of time discussing moving on with their lives. One word that stood out and help many was the word "thrive". It was fuel to those on the board to access what they were doing and moving towards the positive aspects of their lives to continue to make progress in the "healing". It is just a suggestion now that we again grab onto that word in order to help us all to get through the day by day of the healing. It is a good word. When you do live day by day, at the end of a certain period you also can assess those days as "thriving". You are not lying down. You are not just existing. You are making progress, small that it may be. But, even if you shred one less tear, that is progress. Hold that word. Use it as a goal each day. Think about it. It is a good word. Many times the quote "revenge is best when you live your life to the fullest". This is so true. The x is going nuts that I am remarried, remodeled and "de-x'ed" the house, have an great relationship with both of my sons, have gained step-daughters that I would have never had, (all out of the house), business is going well, and I have someone to share my happiness with, and me, hers. My happiness is out in full bloom, like I always new it would do. I wish all here the same, and it will. Tom