Posted by Myssy on 6/7/2006, 8:23 pm, in reply to "Ashamed, lost my head"
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Actually, most fellow employees feel badly toward someone having an affair. My ex tried to tell me "they were cool with it." Well, reality is they divided the office - those who didn't care and those who were hurt. They didn't lunch with the other, didn't talk to the others, they were alone. Several of the other (who were offended by their behavior) wanted to tell me about the affair. I thanked them for not telling me. I think it is better for it to play out the way it is supposed to. If they would have told me, I don't know what I would have believed. After all, he was living in my house sleeping with another woman and lying to me the whole time. Who would I have believed? Would it have been any better for it to have ended in June or Aug? My life was in better shape in Aug. By the way, we all say things we wish we would have had more control over, but all our control in the situation was taken away and it leaves us trying to regain what we lost. Thinking of you!