Posted by April on 6/3/2006, 7:27 am, in reply to "Shaking all over"
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Hi Kathy, It has only been just over 3 months for me now but I remember how it was in those first few weeks. Whilst it is still awful now, it is nowhere near as bad. So hang in there. Try not to think too far ahead. Just get through the day the best way you can. And then the next day too. Trying to think too far ahead just drives you nuts. I remember when I watched a whole hour of tv without thinking, it was joyous. Small steps are all that can be taken at the moment. I too thought of where my x was, with her and what were they doing. DONT. Just push those thoughts out of your head. They wont help. April