Posted by Kathy on 6/2/2006, 4:07 pm
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It's been 7 weeks since he left and 2 weeks since I found out about the OW and now the divorce is in the works. I thought I would hit a level place where I could function until this is over. Now I seem to be shaking all the time and still breaking down. It's like I'm obsessing about where he is, what he's doing, why is he hating me for what's happened. There are mind pictures of them that won't go away. My attorney tells me to be patient, that there's still a long way to go before this is over, but I wonder how all of you out there made it through this. It seems I am leaning on you here more and more as this goes on, I know you all have the voice of experience. Sometimes now, I forget about it for a few minutes then it comes back and hits me in the gut. I know from your posts that there is life after this, but I will be 55 this year and wonder how to start over when this is done. Thank you for all the help.