Posted by Kathy on 5/23/2006, 6:52 am
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I was in such denial. You all kept telling me there was another woman, but I was blind. After posting here, I dropped so low, I found a counsellor who said the same thing, "there is usually another woman". Once the thought was allowed to enter my head, so many things began to make sense. I finally had him followed and found out the truth. It is so unbelieveable!!! She is trashy, someone he would not have been caught dead with 2 years ago. I am so Hurt, Hurt, Hurt. I've hired an attorney but part of me keeps thinking this is just a nightmare and I will wake up. I still want him to see what he is doing and come back. Make all this madness stop. How can I still love a man who's done this to me??? I feel like he's used me and just thrown me away. He won't call me back or come get the rest of his clothes. It's like he just abandoned this life and doesn't care about anything. He's living with her now. He's lied to everyone, me, his mom and dad. He's started a whole new life and it's apparently been going on for a year at least. He appears to be in love with her! Help me, what do I do now? I am so mad that he's done this for so long but it is all new to me, I can't get my head to understand what is happening. Help.