Posted by Lynnette on 5/17/2006, 7:10 am, in reply to "Pain And Confusion"
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Don't let him inside your home anymore. Is there a way that you can meet with him at a McDonalds if you want to stay during the visitation time, or have him pick the kids up, meet him at the door while he is outside the door, and le thim know to wait right there and you will bring the kids to him or out to the car. This way he doesnt get inside your home anymore. Change your locks, its for your own safety for many reasons. You are the protector of yourself and your children in that home. You dont k now how many copy ofkeys he has passed out and to who. Change the locks, you will always be there to let him in, if he needs some property he left behind, you will be mora than willing to be there while he gets it, or set it outside for him to pick up. I didnt do this soon enough. x came in and took my journal. He took it out of the house and made copies of the one page where I had vented my feeling of anger and betrayel that I didnt even know I felt then. He said he used it to show people what he had to deal with. Please don't let your x do this to you. you don't deserve it. Don't set yourself up for this type of behavior from him. He will do it to you. He will do the worst most underhanded things that you dont believe he would ever stoop to. He will stoop to that low level and even lower. Believe that please. Lynnette