Posted by eVe on 9/22/2007, 6:40 pm, in reply to "Re: Has anybody seen the pics from the press for Jesse James?" You know, both Brad and Angie have been married before. My husband and I both agree that neither of us would ever marry again - even if young children were involved. Personally, I did it once and that's it for me. I have no problem with other people doing it a gazillion times if that tickles their fancy. But for me, just once. If my husband were to marry again it would not bother me. It would be his decision as it is his life he's living, not mine - ya know? I have said to him many a time "Don't stay here with me if you don't want to be with me, go. You're only wasting my time & yours by staying in a relationship if you don't want to be in it." Of course I tell him I would miss him and be sad. But we would figure it out amicably. He is my friend first. I love him very much. But I must admit if he were to marry someone else, I hope she would be a bigger b*tch than me! ha ha (hey, I'm human) He thinks I'm such a meanie - he doesn't have a clue! But I've worked hard to develop my inner b*tch - so she's not going away. Anyhoo, it doesn't bother me when people aren't married. What bothers me are when people don't look out for each other or their children. A piece of paper only means a legal entanglement. You can't ever truly force another to do something with a piece of paper. There's always a way around a piece of paper. It really has to be a self-determined decision to be genuine. I wish we could go back to the contractual agreements for marriage of the middle ages. You know, "I promise to be with so-and-so for 7 years renewable upon agreement at that time." This whole idea of "forever" encourages people to take each other for granted. Plus some people act like they've checked something of the list of life and then fail to maintain the relationship as they would if there was nothing binding them.
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OMG Gina! It's such a scare when they all go off in the car. I do worry tremendously and pray that they are safe. My older son is very thoughtful though...ever so often he texts me to let me know they are ok ![]()
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