Posted by diyouth on 3/26/2003, 10:57 pm There is alot of people in this world that feel bad about themselves...low esteemed, unconfident, doubtful of their own abilities to achieve what they genuinely want in life... People like this are usualy trapped in to waiting or doing things to get encouragement/compliments from surrounding 'personalities'...having their emotions being dictated by people who can't feel them...thats low... However we should look into what strength or esteem is...what is being confident ? The only way to know anything is to witness the manifestation of a thing....if things don't manifest you would never know them to be...So if you DO nothing, then how are you going to know urself to be Strong, or Confident?... I know I speak for many people when I say that sometimes certain tasks arise that provoke us to think that we're not smart or strong enough to accomplish them...but the only time ur not smart or strong is when u do nothing about not being smart/strong...as soon as you do something about not being smart, u then become smart...automaticaly/naturaly If you want to be strong then do the things that u think a strong person is able to do...if u know that ur doing something that a weak person would do then u don't want to be strong u want to be weak...its that simple...coz to do anything all u need to do is send the signal to the limbs in ur body and there you go...coz ur body only listens to you...and when u see that ur doing it u start to realize that u are not bound by anything but urself to do what u want to do from the opportunities given to you in life... now check out the attributes of someone who is loved...funny, intelligent, strong, considerate, etc...the only thing that is stopping u from being these is not doing the things that are considerat, strong, intelligent, and funny...in other words the love is always there for you...and sometimes its waiting for you to manifest the attributes that will allow others and yourself to know and see yourself for those things...and be loved by yourself and others... This is not to say to go out there and prove to people that ur this and that...but to remind yourself not to become your own obstacle in life...and not to worry about the things u can't control... How can u feel depressed, sad, down knowing that u possess what people love...You may not believe or know that u have it because u haven't given urself a chance to know, be it that u complain instead of doing...Its like a car in the Blackness of the night. You have to turn on ur own Head Lights for other drivers to see you and for you to see where your going...If you don't do this you go no where in life... In other words do what u think or know that strong people do...do what u know confident people do...do what u think smart people do...don't question if u have what it takes or not...coz the only way to answer that, is to do it...coz when u focus on just doing it, ur mind will see no sense in raising thoughts with doubts and fears...coz its about growing no matter where from...strength, intelligence is more so a direction then a possesion...for to measure confidence, strength, intelligence, is impossible...unless ur eyes can see itself...unlimited...the journey morso than the destination as I heard many say it... diyouth guidance
Haile...give yanks fi life...
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