Thanks so much for the compliment Speaking Out. You know, I never signed that book for that reason. I made sure they never knew when I would show up to check on and visit with my mother. I have a cousin who was in a few nursing homes for rehab. She told me a lot of things to do to make sure my mother was not being neglected or abused. I am thankful for her sharing her wisdom with me. Someone should teach a free class for family members on this subject. Hospice staff was there once a week. We used gateway hospice. The pastor Thomas, the social worker Dennis, the aids and nurses kept a good eye and records on mom. Having extra eyes and ears helps 100 %.