So keeping that in mind its ok I think to be critical of these girls, but lets remember school admins, a coach and possibly even some PD didnt think it was so bad or they wouldnt have let it slide. I dont blame people for being ticked off, but on the list of my things to worry about this doesnt even make my top 100.
Kids are going to screw up, thats what they do, IMO the enablers are the main culprits this time. Slap the girls on the hand, suspend the coach, wake the school admins up and tell the PD to try not to get played again, because I dont think they knowingly signed up on this. It was not a real mature thing to do, but its not the end of the world.