Being on either side is the problem.
Think for yourself and with your own instincts. Otherwise the side you are on forms your thinking and tells you what you're going to believe and who you are going to support.
You're only on the side being attacked, if you in fact have chosen a side - and have allowed that side to tell you what to agree with and disagree with.
There are people who earn millions and tens of millions to keep you bound to one side.